by Tao Oliveto, Carrboro, NC
Are you feeling it? I’m calling it the Election-Connection – an inexplicable desire to reach out and connect with people – people you know, people you don’t know, people you used to know and on and on. For me, it started on Nov. 5th – I was slowly making my way uphill on a busy road. I heard someone call out to me, “Hello Beautiful!” – I looked back to see Veterinary Clinic employees, taking an outdoor break. I waved and the other said, That’s a beautiful dress!” This sounded so cheerful and sincere, I waved back and noticed the hill suddenly felt a bit less steep.
The next day, I was inching my way into a tight parking spot when a man in a truck, waiting a the adjacent light, rolled down his window, motioning me forward with a big smile, “You got it!” he yelled out encouragingly, waiting until I made the space, even as the light turned green.
I checked messages shortly afterwards, to hear the effusive voice of a friend I hadn’t heard from for 6 months….”OOOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOO! We did it, Tao!!!!! Change is happening!” he yelled into my voicemail.
The next day, my neighbor, normally rather recluse, stopped me, smiling, to ask about yoga lessons, saying he suddenly felt “ready” to try it…
Even John Stewart brought up the anomoulos events, saying something was “different” – people in New York City were actually looking at each other…!!
The magic has endured in the days that have followed – more friends and acqaintenances showing up unexpectedly, and strangers looking up from computers and newspapers more frequently, sometimes with a nod and a smile.
We connected, we elected, we connected some more. I can’t wait for what’s next!